Day Seven: Four turn offs.

And as an added bonus, here's another entry. As a continuation of that meme challenge, here goes.

Day Seven: Four turn offs.
1. Don't be so whiny and needy, or be incredibly self-absorbed. I cannot stand whiny or needy people. People who need constant attention 24/7 are people who have the potential to bug the hell out of me. They just completely turn me off. If you can't talk about anything else other than 'Me Me Me!' or your hundred and fifty seven dis-pleasures regarding life on Earth, then please do not come to talk to me or even better, do not get to know me. You won't like me at all!

2. Don't be so competitive and harp all day about results. I think people who get overly competitive about every single thing in life really need to learn how to chill and relax. Take a step back and you'll realize that you don't have to be victorious in every single thing in life. Life isn't meant to be a bed of roses. You have bad days where you aren't the champion. So what? Just go smell the carnations instead. They are pretty flowers too.

3. Arrogance is such a big turn off. Its okay if you are confident about your own abilities and you show it in a polite and controlled manner. But to behave as if you are the biggest piece of shit in the world is another matter altogether. Some people act as if they are superior to others just because they know a little more about something or can do something better than others. I wanna tell these people that its not your abilities that people will remember you by; its the way you behave among others and what others think of you that matters more in life. No point being the greatest clinician of all time if everyone thinks you are the biggest, most pretentious prick in the world and can't be bothered to even consult you!

4. Being manipulative, but not being good at it. I think its actually okay to be manipulative, especially if you are good at it, because people wouldn't actually know that you are being manipulative. But to be manipulative and not able to actual cover your tracks is just tragic. If you managed to manipulate everyone without anyone ever knowing, you'll be my hero. If you attempt to manipulate everyone, only to fail spectacularly, then you're just a loser really. Boo hoo.